{"id":2141,"date":"2009-10-05T14:36:36","date_gmt":"2009-10-05T12:36:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.blogistan.co.uk\/blog\/mt.php\/2009\/10\/05\/he_didnt_just_call_her_a_paki"},"modified":"2009-10-05T13:37:11","modified_gmt":"2009-10-05T12:37:11","slug":"he_didnt_just_call_her_a_paki","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.blogistan.co.uk\/blog\/mt.php\/2009\/10\/05\/he_didnt_just_call_her_a_paki","title":{"rendered":"He didn&#8217;t just call her a Paki"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So, I&#8217;m sure everyone in the UK has heard that Anton du Beke (a BBC presenter and Strictly Come Dancing contestant) told his partner Laila Rouass, after she had applied a fake tan, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.guardian.co.uk\/tv-and-radio\/tvandradioblog\/2009\/oct\/05\/strictly-come-dancing-race\">&#8220;you look like a Paki&#8221;<\/a>.  This has caused quite a bit of controversy, as you might expect, with some calls for him to be sacked.  However, this isn&#8217;t the first time he&#8217;s insulted his partner.  A few weeks before that, when he first met her, he asked her if she was a terrorist on hearing that she had Moroccan ancestry.  (Also see <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blogistan.co.uk\/blog\/mt.php\/2009\/02\/07\/the_importance_of_sensitivity\">earlier entry<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Now, I&#8217;m well aware that many youths of Pakistani origin call each other Paki, and it doesn&#8217;t have the same sting as the N word unless it&#8217;s said in an obviously hostile manner, combined with other derogatory language or used on people of any Asian heritage, regardless of whether they actually are Pakistani.  It&#8217;s just short for Pakistani, after all.  (Not everyone of Pakistani origin approves of it, though.)  However, this guy is obviously a repeat offender, and yes, he did offend her as the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.newsoftheworld.co.uk\/showbiz\/strictly_come_dancing\/533578\/laila-rouass.html\">News of the World report<\/a> makes clear:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>The racist outburst was heard by 15 other people including fellow pro dancer Brendan Cole.<\/p>\n<p>A witness said: &#8220;Laila just stood there gobsmacked, as was everyone else. She just looked at him as if she couldn&#8217;t quite believe what he&#8217;d said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Everyone in the room was just shell-shocked and nobody spoke for few seconds.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Then Laila glared at Anton and just walked out &#8211; she was so upset. She just went to her dressing room, collected her stuff and went straight home. She felt totally humiliated.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Clearly, to a certain type of person, anyone of Arab or Muslim heritage has to be a terrorist, even if they&#8217;re female and dress nothing like a religious Muslim woman would, when most terrorists are male anyway.  Although I&#8217;m white and therefore don&#8217;t encounter much in the way of racial slurs, I would feel insulted at the suggestion that I was a terrorist, probably more so than by a throwaway insult.<\/p>\n<p>If the presenter had said to a black partner, &#8220;you&#8217;re not going to stab me, are you?&#8221; or suggested that she was some other class of criminal such as a drug dealer, and then a couple of weeks later used the N-word on her, he&#8217;d be pretty much dead meat.  The same should be true for this kind of slur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So, I&#8217;m sure everyone in the UK has heard that Anton du Beke (a BBC presenter and Strictly Come Dancing contestant) told his partner Laila Rouass, after she had applied a fake tan, &#8220;you&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[16,19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2141","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-islamophobia","category-racism"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p17bgV-yx","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blogistan.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2141","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blogistan.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blogistan.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogistan.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogistan.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2141"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogistan.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2141\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2142,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogistan.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2141\/revisions\/2142"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blogistan.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2141"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogistan.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2141"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogistan.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2141"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}